{"id":82185,"date":"2015-03-15T15:00:08","date_gmt":"2015-03-15T13:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/?p=82185"},"modified":"2015-03-13T17:35:08","modified_gmt":"2015-03-13T15:35:08","slug":"you-may-be-turning-your-kids-into-terrible-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/trending\/82185\/you-may-be-turning-your-kids-into-terrible-people\/","title":{"rendered":"You may be turning your kids into terrible people"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A new study has shown that parents who have an inflated view of their children may be conditioning them to be narcissistic adults.<\/p>\n<p>The research, conducted by Ohio State University, investigated the origins of narcissistic behaviour in children by looking at 565 children in four 6-month waves of study.<\/p>\n<p>The researchers looked at two standing perspective: social learning (narcissism cultivated by &#8216;parental overvaluation&#8217;) and psychoanalytic theory (narcissism cultivated by lack of parental warmth).<\/p>\n<p>Over the two year period of study, the findings found overwhelming support for the social learning perspective, and contradicted the psychoanalytic theory.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Narcissism was predicted by parental overvaluation, not by lack of parental warmth. Thus, children seem to acquire narcissism, in part, by internalizing parents\u2019 inflated views of them,&#8221; the researchers found.<\/p>\n<p>Parental overvaluation includes the ideas that:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Without your child, his\/her class would be &#8220;much less fun&#8221;;<\/li>\n<li>Your child deserves special treatment;<\/li>\n<li>Your child is &#8220;more special&#8221; than other children;<\/li>\n<li>You&#8217;d be disappointed if your child was just a &#8220;regular&#8221; child;<\/li>\n<li>Your child deserves something extra in life;<\/li>\n<li>and that your child is a great example for other children to follow.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>According to the researchers, narcissism bears many negative social traits, including increased aggression and maybe even violent behaviour.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Narcissistic individuals feel superior to others, fantasize about personal successes, and believe they deserve special treatment. When they feel humiliated, they often lash out aggressively or even violently,&#8221; the group noted.<\/p>\n<p>Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder also show a strong sense of entitlement, carry a grandiose sense of self-importance, and often exploit others and exhibit a lack of empathy.<\/p>\n<p>While the findings are a point of interest, the study notes that narcissistic personality disorder can only be diagnosed by a mental health professional.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We demonstrate that narcissism in children is cultivated by parental overvaluation: parents believing their child to be more special and more entitled than others.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In contrast, the research found that high self-esteem in children is cultivated by parental warmth: parents expressing affection and appreciation toward their child.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"my-4\">More on kids<\/h3>\n<p><strong><a title=\"Permalink to SA school kids being sexually groomed online\" href=\"http:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/internet\/78885\/sa-school-kids-being-sexually-groomed-online\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">SA school kids being sexually groomed online<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a title=\"Permalink to Kids a cyber threat to parents\u2019 wallets\" href=\"http:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/internet\/71149\/kids-a-cyber-threat-to-parents-wallets\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Kids a cyber threat to parents\u2019 wallets<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a title=\"Permalink to Video games help kids with autism\" href=\"http:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/electronics\/54027\/video-games-help-kids-with-autism\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Video games help kids with autism<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A new study has shown that parents who have an inflated view of their children may be conditioning them to be narcissistic adults.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":32788,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[26,9585,9587,2238],"class_list":["post-82185","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-trending","tag-headline","tag-kids","tag-narcissism","tag-research"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82185","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82185"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82185\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":82187,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82185\/revisions\/82187"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32788"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82185"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82185"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82185"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}