{"id":839433,"date":"2025-10-09T07:24:06","date_gmt":"2025-10-09T05:24:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/?p=839433"},"modified":"2025-10-09T07:24:10","modified_gmt":"2025-10-09T05:24:10","slug":"from-pillow-talk-to-paperwork-the-will-to-be-wise-for-cohabiting-retirees","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/industry-news\/839433\/from-pillow-talk-to-paperwork-the-will-to-be-wise-for-cohabiting-retirees\/","title":{"rendered":"From pillow talk to paperwork: The Will to be wise for cohabiting retirees"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>More and more South African retirees are choosing companionship over convention \u2013 living together without walking down the aisle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a lifestyle shift that celebrates independence and love in later life, but it also raises some tricky questions: What happens when your relationship is recognised by your heart, but not by the law?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pps.co.za\/plan\/wills-trusts-estate-planning?utm_source=BusinessTech&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_term=October+2025\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Click here to learn more about PPS Fiduciary.<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s where the Will to be wise comes in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Unmarried, but not unentangled<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Cohabiting retirees often live in what we call the <em>autonomy paradox<\/em>: free to design their lives together, but with fewer legal safety nets than married couples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And here\u2019s the kicker, without a Will, the law won\u2019t automatically protect your partner. In fact, your surviving partner could be left with nothing at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As <em><strong>Roy McMurchie, Head of Fiduciary Services at PPS<\/strong><\/em>, explains, \u201cA Will is the bridge between love and the law. For cohabitants, it\u2019s the only way to make sure your intentions are respected.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Four gaps cohabiting retirees often overlook<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. Medical decision-making<\/strong><br>No Will? No healthcare directives? Then hospitals aren\u2019t obliged to involve your partner in critical medical decisions.<br><br><strong>2. Property pitfalls<\/strong><br>If the home is in one partner\u2019s name, it could pass to their heirs, not the partner who actually lives there.<br><br><strong>3. Tax talk<\/strong><br>Spouses get estate duty exemptions. Cohabiting partners? Not so lucky \u2013 cue capital gains tax and estate duty.<br><br><strong>4. Pension pickles<\/strong><br>Even if your partner is a named beneficiary, trustees have the final say. Delays, disputes, or diversions can happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A three-pillar plan for cohabiting partners<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>At PPS Fiduciary, we believe planning for love and legacy is absolutely Will-able. <br><br>Here\u2019s how to start:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u2022 Cohabitation agreements<\/strong><br>Spell out financial responsibilities and asset rights \u2013 before life (or the law) decides for you.<br><br><strong>\u2022 Trust structures<\/strong><br>A trust \u2013 like the PPS Beneficiaries Trust \u2013 safeguards wealth, especially where children or vulnerable dependants are involved. Think of it as a protective bubble for your partner\u2019s future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u2022 Regular reviews<\/strong><br>Love evolves. So should your paperwork. Review Wills, directives, and digital access every year, or whenever life takes a turn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Modern love, modern assets<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Did you know 63% of cohabiting clients forget about digital assets like crypto, NFTs, or even online royalties? That\u2019s future wealth potentially lost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>As McMurchie<\/em><\/strong> puts it: \u201cModern love needs modern planning. The Will to be wise means planning for the unexpected, from Bitcoin to family heirlooms.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why bother?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Because estate planning isn\u2019t about wealth alone, it\u2019s about clarity, dignity, and continuity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s about making sure your partner is looked after, your wishes are honoured, and your legacy reflects your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While Wills Month serves as an important national reminder, the need to draft or update a Will should not be confined to a single week or month each year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Life changes continuously, relationships evolve, assets shift, and families grow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Treating estate planning as an ongoing commitment rather than a once-a-year exercise ensures that your affairs remain current and your loved ones are protected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is one of the most meaningful gifts you can give your family: the peace of mind that comes from knowing they will be cared for and guided by your intentions when you no longer can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, if you\u2019re cohabiting in retirement, remember verbal promises won\u2019t cut it. Only a Will makes it real.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Give yourself and your loved one the ultimate gift: <strong>the Will to be wise.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pps.co.za\/plan\/wills-trusts-estate-planning?utm_source=BusinessTech&amp;utm_medium=Article&amp;utm_term=October+2025\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">PPS Fiduciary<\/a><\/strong> is here to help you make it official, fair, and future proof. Because when love meets legacy, it\u2019s always Will-able.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>More and more South African retirees are choosing companionship over convention \u2013 living together without walking down the aisle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":57,"featured_media":839434,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10459],"tags":[11467,23775,23773,23776,23774],"class_list":["post-839433","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-industry-news","tag-pps","tag-pps-beneficiaries-trust","tag-pps-fiduciary","tag-pps-wills","tag-roy-mcmurchie"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/839433","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/57"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=839433"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/839433\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":839438,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/839433\/revisions\/839438"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/839434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=839433"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=839433"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/businesstech.co.za\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=839433"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}